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Boyfriend has an online poker problem › Add new comment my son By jane - Posted on December 31st, 2007. Tonight I was reading the posts on Paul’s blog, and saw the gambling helper web address. It reminded me of how I met Paul-it was at the gh site. I posted here often, about my son, who is bets on sports. If you’ve found out your son is addicted to gambling, you’re likely to be worried, upset or even angry. Your son’s gambling habit is now causing him serious problems – his finances, relationships and health are suffering. But he still repeats the same destructive cycle – winning occasionally but chasing losses more. My son has a gambling addiction. What professional help can we get him. I live in Perth Western Australia. Answered by a verified Mental Health Professional.
Hi everyone,
I posted here about a week ago. My son is addicted to gambling. A week ago he was going to stop. Now he is going to ’get it under control.’ It is impossible to talk to him about this horrible addiction ( compulsive gambling ) unless he comes to me first. And, unfortunately, that is when he has lost. I do not know what to do to help him. How do you watch a loved one destroy himself?? I can barely function. I live 100 miles away from the nearest Gam-Anon, and their meetings are on an evening when I can not go due to work. My son will not ask for help. He is young, proud, and, I imagine, afraid. Thank you for listening.
*Oct 01, 2015 If you have a family member or a friend with a gambling problem – and you ignore it – you’re making a risky bet. Particularly if that person is heavily involved in your life, since his or her.
*One of the problems is we live in the state of Nevada-yep, gambling is everywhere. He likes to do sports betting, and he is afraid he will not enjoy sports as much. I guess that when you are recovering from this addiction you have to learn to live your life over, in a sense. I am sorry for going on for so long.
Jane
Maybe it would help if you found an ex-gambler that could give him some talking to, or show him some people that are in deep in gambling and ask him if that is how he wants to be.
Just a suggestion.
Thank you for the suggestion. I do not know any one, but perhaps I will try to find someone. It is a good suggestion. I am open to any suggestions. At this point I am desperate. I am sorry, I know I need to try to live my own life. I try. Most of the time I do, even if only barely. Sounds terrible, I know. I have got to figure out how to deal with this. I wish I did not live so far from any help.
Jane
Hi Jane,
I am a Compulsive Gambler.. but can help you. I know that sounds very weird, but I’ve have 9 years of experience working in a support group for acting out kids and adult kids. Every addiction imaginable, murder, gangs, runaways and mental illness.. you name it. So.. If you would like I can help you through this.
My heart goes out to you.
Terri
Hi Terri,
Thank you for your offer to help. I very much appreciate it. I know I should not let this affect me so, but at this time it is. I feel for you, a cg. We are all in this together. I hope to help others, also. Do you have any suggestions? Yes, I do need help through this.
Thank you. Jane
I printed some of the pages off of this message board and showed it to my husband and let him know that I joined - I did not say much more than that but he did seem kind of interested and then when he wanted to try ’the allowance idea’ he kind of hinted that I should post that question to see the feedback that I got and he really liked a couple of your guys responses - So, try it out. Don’t badger him with it - just hand him some pages and let him read - Maybe he’ll join.
God Bless and Protect Us ALL - Take Care.
Anita
Hello Anita, and others,
I have told him about this site. At the time he was determined to quit. He said he would check this site out, but he did not. Now, a week later, he is giving into the impulses, and says he will not. He says he can quit, or ’control’ his gambling on his own. He cannot. I am terribly frightened for him..
I just had a thought. I have asked my son to visit this site. At first he said he would, a week later ’no.’ (As I believe I said already) Do any of you have an idea on how I can, or if there is something I can say to him to get him to come to this site? I am careful with what I say to him, I do not tell him what to do. Only try to suggest. Right now he seems to be literally going crazy, because he is trying to stop.
Thank you again, and the best to all of you. Jane
Hi Jane, I’m a Compulsive Gambler.
It’s unfortunate, but most of us can’t get help until we admit we are powerless over gambling. Any thoughts we have that we can control it or limit it is really just another way the disease warps our thinking. And yes, he probably is literally going crazy..I was totally shocked at the feelings of withdrawal I had when I first became gambling-free.
My heart goes out to you..keep coming here for support!
Take care. Shelley.
Hello,
I am trying to understand this addiction (compulsive gambling ). It is hard to understand. I would understand more if I were a cg. I have never had the desire to gamble, drink, or do drugs. I do not understand why some do, and some do not. I know we all have difficult things to deal with, why some of us turn to something destructive, and others don’t I do not know. There are those studying this. Our brains are all different.I know no one starts gambling for the reasons they now gamble, if they are a cg. My son started, for one reason, simply because it was there. EVERYWHERE. We live in Nevada. He makes bets on sports. He knows a lot about sports.
He won a lot of money, at first. He saw a program on t.v. about people making a 6-7 figure living betting on sports. That did it. He thought he could become wealthy. Others do. Yes, they actually do. But what kind of life do they have? Are they able to keep families? And, what is the percentage of those that do make a living at this? VERY small. Now he is addicted, and it is, perhaps HAS, destroyed him. He is very young (20’s). When his brother was in college I went to an orientation at the college. They told us that college students’ (there) biggest serious problem is not drinking, is not drugs, it is gambling. This is SO terrible. I wish the absolute very best for all of you. Hang in there. You deserve a good life. I do not think I can keep coming here and laying my problems on you. I will keep you in my thoughts, and prayers. I simply am feeling too down, too lost, to burden you who are dealing with this demon.
Shelley, artist block is when you are an artist, and you do not do your art. I teach art classes at the community college---I paint for class because I have to. But my own work, it does not get down. My worries get in the way. I have won many awards with my art, could do a lot with it. But my heart is just not in it.
I am sorry for the down mood today. I feel I may never get my son back. I am scared, and, as I said, will not bring this to you. I really do wish all of you the best. Please keep doing good.
Jane.
Jane,
please don’t pull away from the site..no matter what you are feeling there is someone else out there who feels the same. Maybe there are other Moms out there who have been here and read your posts, not thinking to reply, but taking comfort in knowing they are not alone. You are feeling lost, scared and depressed. I can’t possibly know what you are going thru because I’m on the other side of compulsive gambling, but I do know that it’s times like this we NEED to reach out for help. You mentioned that the nearest Gam-Anon meeting is miles away? There should be a phone number, for you to get in contact with someone from the group. Please try..even if you can’t make a meeting, maybe there is some alternative that is available. Just call!! Make that one small step to help yourself feel a little more pro-active in this problem. As a CG, I have absolutely no idea what the basic program is for Gam-Anon. I wish there was another member here that was involved in Gam-Anon.
Please don’t stop posting. Share your feelings, no matter how hard it seems. You are NOT burdening me! The more I progress in my recovery, the more I want to help others recover..and that includes those that are affected by a CG. Please, Jane, just try making the call to Gam-Anon. You have nothing to lose but a little long-distance charge, and maybe everything to gain.
Take care of you.
Shelley
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By jane - Posted on December 31st, 2007
Tonight I was reading the posts on Paul’s blog, and saw the gambling helper web address. It reminded me of how I met Paul---it was at the gh site. I posted here often, about my son, who is bets on sports. I am not sure anyone will remember; or if anyone is here any longer. It does not look like the site is active. Paul and I communicated often, and he was a big help. As were others here. Here is an update:
My son tryed to quit off and on for some time. Then one day he decided to go to GA meetings. His father and I went with him the first day. He and his father cried at the meeting, hearing what they were hearing. I had already heard such stories, and it was not such a shock to me as it was to them. My son kept going, and it did help. Then he stopped going very often.
Then-------------almost two years ago a new treatment center for gambling addiction opened in the town where he lives. His father and I asked him if he would go, and he said yes. And, he did. He attended meetings there four evenings a week, and 3 evenings a week he went to GA meetings. The treatment program was for about 2 months. He never missed a meeting. I attended meetings for family members twice a week, driving almost 100 miles one way. The more I learned about the addiction, and also the role his father and I had in it (enabling, etc.) the better we were able to help him. (And ourselves.) The treatment center was a life saver. One of the good things about the center, it only costs $5 a meeting. If you do not have the $5, you do not have to pay. They really do want to help the cg. After finishing the program my son turned his finances over to me. I handled his finances for about a year, and now his girlfriend does. He has had one relapse in the last year, but is doing very well. I see the son I had before this nightmare returning more every day. There is hope.
jane
Annual profits for the gambling industry in the United States are around $40 billion.
For those who fill an emotional need or seek euphoria through gambling, a lot of help is necessary to overcome the driving need to gamble.
Helping a true gambling addict to recognize they have a severe problem is the first step towards gambling addiction recovery, but they will need ongoing support to make it to the other side.
Through it all, continue to be patient and encouraging while always maintaining a non-judgmental attitude.
That will help no matter which ways you find work the best for helping a loved one to recover from an addition to gambling.
Contents1. Identify signs of the problem
The first step is to look for many signs that come with compulsive gambling, which is where the issue occurs.
Lying, theft or other illegal activities, as well as a constant need to increase the stakes are signs of compulsive gambling and a serious problem.
Hiding the extent of their gambling habit or how much money is involved are also key signs that the problem needs to be addressed now.2. Don’t judge
Prepare for a defensive reaction and be clear that the concern you have is not about judging their behavior.
Use “I” statements and ask if other parts of their life seem to be in need of attention.
Above all, make sure to let them know that you care – repeatedly.Read more about gambling addiction: gambling addiction rehab, gambling addiction statistics, i lost all my money gambling what do i do, how to get help for gambling addiction, and how to stop gambling and save money.3. Learn the difference between problem gambling and addiction
Problem gambling is behavior that disrupts your life.
Addiction means gambling is uncontrollable for you.
You are suffering from an impulse control disorder.
This means that no matter how much money you have, how it will affect loved ones and whether you are currently winning or losing, you keep gambling.4. Understand the causes, contributing factors and personality traits related to gambling
Causes for gambling can range from a stressful day and a desire for a distraction to the need for a rush or a means of social interaction.
Knowing the main reason that a gambler turns to the habit can make it easier to find substitute behaviors to suggest and help the gambler utilize instead of gambling.5. Research treatment
There are different avenues of treatment for gambling.
It is possible to work on treating the habit and problems at home.
Seeing a therapist in the company of the family can be helpful in an effort to resolve issues with gambling.
There are treatment centers that have programs for those who can’t stop themselves from gambling.
Typically, gambling occurs with an underlying condition, and the underlying conditions being treated can help with the gambling as well.
Finally, there is Cognitive Behavior Therapy or treatments with medication that can be recommended and managed by professionals for those who might benefit from these treatments.6. Learn which treatment methods are more effective with different people and why
Medication can be helpful for treating underlying conditions like depression anxiety or ADHD.
CBT or therapy with the family can be helpful for those with social anxiety, the desire to interact in a healthy manner with others or those dealing with significant amounts of stress.
Each person has a different set of triggers and related factors for their gambling problem.
Different therapies can be effective once the causes are narrowed down.7. Prepare for a negative reaction
Gamblers do not like to admit they have a problem.
Since that admission is so difficult, they are not going to want to stop gambling, much less seek treatment.
It is best to be prepared for their negativity and even the anger they may direct at you.8. Talk to them about the issue
For those who are close to the gambler, an honest conversation is a must.
This will be difficult, but with preparation and a straight-forward, caring approach it can be done.
For those who are not close to the individual, the conversation should be with someone who is close to them.9. Explain the probable consequences
Let the gambler know that there are some big potential issues that can arise if they continue feeding their habit.
Running out of money, legal issues and losing family due to the addiction are all key factors to mention.
It is also a good idea to remind them that gambling can be fun, but there comes a time when the fun has changed to serious addiction and problematic behavior.10. Discuss treatment options with the gambler
Talk to the gambler about the possible causes for their gambling addiction.
Treatment options can start out with things like therapy and work toward inpatient programs or other methods if initial efforts fail.
For those who know that they have a serious problem and won’t be able to get past it on their own, then inpatient treatment and complete isolation from venues and gambling opportunities is the best option.
Talking to the gambler may provide some insight that can not be gained otherwise.
This makes it easier to address the problem and encourages their cooperation because they were consulted and feel their opinion is valued regarding their own shortcomings.11. Encourage them to get help from a professional
With gambling, it is important to work with a professional.
This is particularly important because it allows an outside professional to determine the underlying causes and what treatments are required.
A professional is also objective, which is very important in situations of addiction, which causes very strong emotional reactions from loved ones.
The professional can provide the most accurate analysis of the situation, why the gambling is such a problem and how best to address the addiction and be able to move past it.12. Use honesty to encourage honesty
Modeling is important for adults as well as children.
This is an important factor when considering a key factor in gambling situations, which is a lack of honesty.
It is important for people in a gambler’s life to be honest, even when they have bad days or backslide.
This encourages the gambler to be honest and let people know when they are struggling with the desire to gamble.13. Address the issue of the debt associated with the problem
Gambling means money disappears fast.
Sadly, no one who gambles tends to get on a winning streak and stay on it.
Therefore, it is important to make the gambler very aware of what the addiction costs the family, any loved ones close to the gambler and the gambler themselves.
Money can be a huge incentive to quit gambling, because it is a finite resource.
It does not replenish itself, so the bank account doesn’t magically grow when no one is looking.14. Be supportive during their treatment
Gambling can be a challenging problem to overcome.
As with any addiction, it is usually a big part of the gambler’s life and takes up a lot of their time.
When it comes time to address the problem and change the behavior, it is easier to do when others are there to help distract and refocus the gambler.
It is also not helpful when loved ones are judgmental and negative toward the gambler, as that tends to increase the chances of a relapse.
Those who overcome addiction successfully do so with an active support system, understanding family members and determination on the part of the gambler and those around him or her to push through and succeed no matter what.15. Help them avoid situations where gambling is popular
Encourage the gambler to find other places to spend their time.
It is key to help them avoid the gambling venues they frequented in whatever manner necessary.
If they have a bad habit of stopping in just to see what’s going on, help them choose routes that do not go near the gambling venue when traveling to pay bills or complete other tasks.16. Discuss the option of medication
Medication can be helpful to those with a gambling addiction.
Their addiction may be tied to compulsive behaviors due to a mental illness.
This mental illness may not be controllable through behavior modification or effort on the part of the gambler.
This is where medication can come into play.
When the underlying conditions are controlled with medication, then the gambling problem can be the sole focus and gain better results.17. Encourage the gambler to attend a support group
For some, gambling is a way to have social interaction.
Regardless of whether that is a factor in a gambling
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Boyfriend has an online poker problem › Add new comment my son By jane - Posted on December 31st, 2007. Tonight I was reading the posts on Paul’s blog, and saw the gambling helper web address. It reminded me of how I met Paul-it was at the gh site. I posted here often, about my son, who is bets on sports. If you’ve found out your son is addicted to gambling, you’re likely to be worried, upset or even angry. Your son’s gambling habit is now causing him serious problems – his finances, relationships and health are suffering. But he still repeats the same destructive cycle – winning occasionally but chasing losses more. My son has a gambling addiction. What professional help can we get him. I live in Perth Western Australia. Answered by a verified Mental Health Professional.
Hi everyone,
I posted here about a week ago. My son is addicted to gambling. A week ago he was going to stop. Now he is going to ’get it under control.’ It is impossible to talk to him about this horrible addiction ( compulsive gambling ) unless he comes to me first. And, unfortunately, that is when he has lost. I do not know what to do to help him. How do you watch a loved one destroy himself?? I can barely function. I live 100 miles away from the nearest Gam-Anon, and their meetings are on an evening when I can not go due to work. My son will not ask for help. He is young, proud, and, I imagine, afraid. Thank you for listening.
*Oct 01, 2015 If you have a family member or a friend with a gambling problem – and you ignore it – you’re making a risky bet. Particularly if that person is heavily involved in your life, since his or her.
*One of the problems is we live in the state of Nevada-yep, gambling is everywhere. He likes to do sports betting, and he is afraid he will not enjoy sports as much. I guess that when you are recovering from this addiction you have to learn to live your life over, in a sense. I am sorry for going on for so long.
Jane
Maybe it would help if you found an ex-gambler that could give him some talking to, or show him some people that are in deep in gambling and ask him if that is how he wants to be.
Just a suggestion.
Thank you for the suggestion. I do not know any one, but perhaps I will try to find someone. It is a good suggestion. I am open to any suggestions. At this point I am desperate. I am sorry, I know I need to try to live my own life. I try. Most of the time I do, even if only barely. Sounds terrible, I know. I have got to figure out how to deal with this. I wish I did not live so far from any help.
Jane
Hi Jane,
I am a Compulsive Gambler.. but can help you. I know that sounds very weird, but I’ve have 9 years of experience working in a support group for acting out kids and adult kids. Every addiction imaginable, murder, gangs, runaways and mental illness.. you name it. So.. If you would like I can help you through this.
My heart goes out to you.
Terri
Hi Terri,
Thank you for your offer to help. I very much appreciate it. I know I should not let this affect me so, but at this time it is. I feel for you, a cg. We are all in this together. I hope to help others, also. Do you have any suggestions? Yes, I do need help through this.
Thank you. Jane
I printed some of the pages off of this message board and showed it to my husband and let him know that I joined - I did not say much more than that but he did seem kind of interested and then when he wanted to try ’the allowance idea’ he kind of hinted that I should post that question to see the feedback that I got and he really liked a couple of your guys responses - So, try it out. Don’t badger him with it - just hand him some pages and let him read - Maybe he’ll join.
God Bless and Protect Us ALL - Take Care.
Anita
Hello Anita, and others,
I have told him about this site. At the time he was determined to quit. He said he would check this site out, but he did not. Now, a week later, he is giving into the impulses, and says he will not. He says he can quit, or ’control’ his gambling on his own. He cannot. I am terribly frightened for him..
I just had a thought. I have asked my son to visit this site. At first he said he would, a week later ’no.’ (As I believe I said already) Do any of you have an idea on how I can, or if there is something I can say to him to get him to come to this site? I am careful with what I say to him, I do not tell him what to do. Only try to suggest. Right now he seems to be literally going crazy, because he is trying to stop.
Thank you again, and the best to all of you. Jane
Hi Jane, I’m a Compulsive Gambler.
It’s unfortunate, but most of us can’t get help until we admit we are powerless over gambling. Any thoughts we have that we can control it or limit it is really just another way the disease warps our thinking. And yes, he probably is literally going crazy..I was totally shocked at the feelings of withdrawal I had when I first became gambling-free.
My heart goes out to you..keep coming here for support!
Take care. Shelley.
Hello,
I am trying to understand this addiction (compulsive gambling ). It is hard to understand. I would understand more if I were a cg. I have never had the desire to gamble, drink, or do drugs. I do not understand why some do, and some do not. I know we all have difficult things to deal with, why some of us turn to something destructive, and others don’t I do not know. There are those studying this. Our brains are all different.I know no one starts gambling for the reasons they now gamble, if they are a cg. My son started, for one reason, simply because it was there. EVERYWHERE. We live in Nevada. He makes bets on sports. He knows a lot about sports.
He won a lot of money, at first. He saw a program on t.v. about people making a 6-7 figure living betting on sports. That did it. He thought he could become wealthy. Others do. Yes, they actually do. But what kind of life do they have? Are they able to keep families? And, what is the percentage of those that do make a living at this? VERY small. Now he is addicted, and it is, perhaps HAS, destroyed him. He is very young (20’s). When his brother was in college I went to an orientation at the college. They told us that college students’ (there) biggest serious problem is not drinking, is not drugs, it is gambling. This is SO terrible. I wish the absolute very best for all of you. Hang in there. You deserve a good life. I do not think I can keep coming here and laying my problems on you. I will keep you in my thoughts, and prayers. I simply am feeling too down, too lost, to burden you who are dealing with this demon.
Shelley, artist block is when you are an artist, and you do not do your art. I teach art classes at the community college---I paint for class because I have to. But my own work, it does not get down. My worries get in the way. I have won many awards with my art, could do a lot with it. But my heart is just not in it.
I am sorry for the down mood today. I feel I may never get my son back. I am scared, and, as I said, will not bring this to you. I really do wish all of you the best. Please keep doing good.
Jane.
Jane,
please don’t pull away from the site..no matter what you are feeling there is someone else out there who feels the same. Maybe there are other Moms out there who have been here and read your posts, not thinking to reply, but taking comfort in knowing they are not alone. You are feeling lost, scared and depressed. I can’t possibly know what you are going thru because I’m on the other side of compulsive gambling, but I do know that it’s times like this we NEED to reach out for help. You mentioned that the nearest Gam-Anon meeting is miles away? There should be a phone number, for you to get in contact with someone from the group. Please try..even if you can’t make a meeting, maybe there is some alternative that is available. Just call!! Make that one small step to help yourself feel a little more pro-active in this problem. As a CG, I have absolutely no idea what the basic program is for Gam-Anon. I wish there was another member here that was involved in Gam-Anon.
Please don’t stop posting. Share your feelings, no matter how hard it seems. You are NOT burdening me! The more I progress in my recovery, the more I want to help others recover..and that includes those that are affected by a CG. Please, Jane, just try making the call to Gam-Anon. You have nothing to lose but a little long-distance charge, and maybe everything to gain.
Take care of you.
Shelley
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By jane - Posted on December 31st, 2007
Tonight I was reading the posts on Paul’s blog, and saw the gambling helper web address. It reminded me of how I met Paul---it was at the gh site. I posted here often, about my son, who is bets on sports. I am not sure anyone will remember; or if anyone is here any longer. It does not look like the site is active. Paul and I communicated often, and he was a big help. As were others here. Here is an update:
My son tryed to quit off and on for some time. Then one day he decided to go to GA meetings. His father and I went with him the first day. He and his father cried at the meeting, hearing what they were hearing. I had already heard such stories, and it was not such a shock to me as it was to them. My son kept going, and it did help. Then he stopped going very often.
Then-------------almost two years ago a new treatment center for gambling addiction opened in the town where he lives. His father and I asked him if he would go, and he said yes. And, he did. He attended meetings there four evenings a week, and 3 evenings a week he went to GA meetings. The treatment program was for about 2 months. He never missed a meeting. I attended meetings for family members twice a week, driving almost 100 miles one way. The more I learned about the addiction, and also the role his father and I had in it (enabling, etc.) the better we were able to help him. (And ourselves.) The treatment center was a life saver. One of the good things about the center, it only costs $5 a meeting. If you do not have the $5, you do not have to pay. They really do want to help the cg. After finishing the program my son turned his finances over to me. I handled his finances for about a year, and now his girlfriend does. He has had one relapse in the last year, but is doing very well. I see the son I had before this nightmare returning more every day. There is hope.
jane
Annual profits for the gambling industry in the United States are around $40 billion.
For those who fill an emotional need or seek euphoria through gambling, a lot of help is necessary to overcome the driving need to gamble.
Helping a true gambling addict to recognize they have a severe problem is the first step towards gambling addiction recovery, but they will need ongoing support to make it to the other side.
Through it all, continue to be patient and encouraging while always maintaining a non-judgmental attitude.
That will help no matter which ways you find work the best for helping a loved one to recover from an addition to gambling.
Contents1. Identify signs of the problem
The first step is to look for many signs that come with compulsive gambling, which is where the issue occurs.
Lying, theft or other illegal activities, as well as a constant need to increase the stakes are signs of compulsive gambling and a serious problem.
Hiding the extent of their gambling habit or how much money is involved are also key signs that the problem needs to be addressed now.2. Don’t judge
Prepare for a defensive reaction and be clear that the concern you have is not about judging their behavior.
Use “I” statements and ask if other parts of their life seem to be in need of attention.
Above all, make sure to let them know that you care – repeatedly.Read more about gambling addiction: gambling addiction rehab, gambling addiction statistics, i lost all my money gambling what do i do, how to get help for gambling addiction, and how to stop gambling and save money.3. Learn the difference between problem gambling and addiction
Problem gambling is behavior that disrupts your life.
Addiction means gambling is uncontrollable for you.
You are suffering from an impulse control disorder.
This means that no matter how much money you have, how it will affect loved ones and whether you are currently winning or losing, you keep gambling.4. Understand the causes, contributing factors and personality traits related to gambling
Causes for gambling can range from a stressful day and a desire for a distraction to the need for a rush or a means of social interaction.
Knowing the main reason that a gambler turns to the habit can make it easier to find substitute behaviors to suggest and help the gambler utilize instead of gambling.5. Research treatment
There are different avenues of treatment for gambling.
It is possible to work on treating the habit and problems at home.
Seeing a therapist in the company of the family can be helpful in an effort to resolve issues with gambling.
There are treatment centers that have programs for those who can’t stop themselves from gambling.
Typically, gambling occurs with an underlying condition, and the underlying conditions being treated can help with the gambling as well.
Finally, there is Cognitive Behavior Therapy or treatments with medication that can be recommended and managed by professionals for those who might benefit from these treatments.6. Learn which treatment methods are more effective with different people and why
Medication can be helpful for treating underlying conditions like depression anxiety or ADHD.
CBT or therapy with the family can be helpful for those with social anxiety, the desire to interact in a healthy manner with others or those dealing with significant amounts of stress.
Each person has a different set of triggers and related factors for their gambling problem.
Different therapies can be effective once the causes are narrowed down.7. Prepare for a negative reaction
Gamblers do not like to admit they have a problem.
Since that admission is so difficult, they are not going to want to stop gambling, much less seek treatment.
It is best to be prepared for their negativity and even the anger they may direct at you.8. Talk to them about the issue
For those who are close to the gambler, an honest conversation is a must.
This will be difficult, but with preparation and a straight-forward, caring approach it can be done.
For those who are not close to the individual, the conversation should be with someone who is close to them.9. Explain the probable consequences
Let the gambler know that there are some big potential issues that can arise if they continue feeding their habit.
Running out of money, legal issues and losing family due to the addiction are all key factors to mention.
It is also a good idea to remind them that gambling can be fun, but there comes a time when the fun has changed to serious addiction and problematic behavior.10. Discuss treatment options with the gambler
Talk to the gambler about the possible causes for their gambling addiction.
Treatment options can start out with things like therapy and work toward inpatient programs or other methods if initial efforts fail.
For those who know that they have a serious problem and won’t be able to get past it on their own, then inpatient treatment and complete isolation from venues and gambling opportunities is the best option.
Talking to the gambler may provide some insight that can not be gained otherwise.
This makes it easier to address the problem and encourages their cooperation because they were consulted and feel their opinion is valued regarding their own shortcomings.11. Encourage them to get help from a professional
With gambling, it is important to work with a professional.
This is particularly important because it allows an outside professional to determine the underlying causes and what treatments are required.
A professional is also objective, which is very important in situations of addiction, which causes very strong emotional reactions from loved ones.
The professional can provide the most accurate analysis of the situation, why the gambling is such a problem and how best to address the addiction and be able to move past it.12. Use honesty to encourage honesty
Modeling is important for adults as well as children.
This is an important factor when considering a key factor in gambling situations, which is a lack of honesty.
It is important for people in a gambler’s life to be honest, even when they have bad days or backslide.
This encourages the gambler to be honest and let people know when they are struggling with the desire to gamble.13. Address the issue of the debt associated with the problem
Gambling means money disappears fast.
Sadly, no one who gambles tends to get on a winning streak and stay on it.
Therefore, it is important to make the gambler very aware of what the addiction costs the family, any loved ones close to the gambler and the gambler themselves.
Money can be a huge incentive to quit gambling, because it is a finite resource.
It does not replenish itself, so the bank account doesn’t magically grow when no one is looking.14. Be supportive during their treatment
Gambling can be a challenging problem to overcome.
As with any addiction, it is usually a big part of the gambler’s life and takes up a lot of their time.
When it comes time to address the problem and change the behavior, it is easier to do when others are there to help distract and refocus the gambler.
It is also not helpful when loved ones are judgmental and negative toward the gambler, as that tends to increase the chances of a relapse.
Those who overcome addiction successfully do so with an active support system, understanding family members and determination on the part of the gambler and those around him or her to push through and succeed no matter what.15. Help them avoid situations where gambling is popular
Encourage the gambler to find other places to spend their time.
It is key to help them avoid the gambling venues they frequented in whatever manner necessary.
If they have a bad habit of stopping in just to see what’s going on, help them choose routes that do not go near the gambling venue when traveling to pay bills or complete other tasks.16. Discuss the option of medication
Medication can be helpful to those with a gambling addiction.
Their addiction may be tied to compulsive behaviors due to a mental illness.
This mental illness may not be controllable through behavior modification or effort on the part of the gambler.
This is where medication can come into play.
When the underlying conditions are controlled with medication, then the gambling problem can be the sole focus and gain better results.17. Encourage the gambler to attend a support group
For some, gambling is a way to have social interaction.
Regardless of whether that is a factor in a gambling
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